When Grandparents Become the School-Run and Daycare Drivers

Two setups, two different insurance questions

Grandparents drive their own car. Their policy, their limits, their medical payments coverage. The question is whether those limits were set for two adults running errands or for a car that now carries small children several days a week.

Grandparents drive the parents' car. Occasional borrowing is one thing; a standing arrangement is another. Whether a regular driver who does not live in the household must be listed is decided by each insurer's rules and varies by insurance company. The parents should ask, describe the schedule honestly, and get the answer in writing.

The week the arrangement starts

1. Put the seats in the car that will be used. Moving seats between cars daily is where installation mistakes creep in; a second set is often worth it.
2. Check older cars carefully. Some older vehicles have lap-only belts in the back. Section 27363 allows a child over 40 pounds to ride in the back with only a lap belt when there is no lap-and-shoulder belt there, but a seat that needs a shoulder belt must go where one exists.
3. Know the age rules. Under 8 in a rear seat in a restraint; under 2 rear-facing unless 40 pounds or 40 inches; 8 to 15 in a restraint or a properly worn belt.
4. Remember who carries the duty. Section 27360 says it does not apply to the driver only when a parent or legal guardian is a passenger. With grandparents driving alone, it applies to them.

Within 30 days

• Put a folder in the glovebox: each child's name and date of birth, the parents' phone numbers, any allergy or medical notes, and the current proof of insurance.
• Settle who is listed where. If the parents' insurer wants the grandparents listed on the parents' policy, do it now rather than after a claim.
• Check renewal dates for the grandparents' licenses. At 70 and older the DMV renewal finishes with an office visit and vision test, so plan it around the school calendar.

At the next renewal

• Grandparents' policy: update the mileage if the school run adds real distance; look at liability, uninsured motorist and medical payments limits with child passengers in mind.
• The mature driver course: under Insurance Code section 11628.3, insurers must give an appropriate reduction to principal operators 55 and older who complete the DMV-approved course, retaken every three years.
• Parents' policy: confirm the listing decision still matches how often the grandparents drive.

If there is a collision with the children aboard

1. Check the children first and call 911 if anyone is hurt.
2. Exchange the information Vehicle Code section 16025 requires: names, addresses, license numbers, vehicle identification, the registered owner, and insurance company and policy number.
3. Call the parents, then the insurer of the car you were driving.
4. If anyone was injured or damage to any one person's property exceeds $1,000, each driver must report to the DMV on form SR-1 within 10 days, whatever the insurance claim does.
5. Ask the insurer about the car seats before reusing them.

The conversation worth having

Families rarely talk about this until something happens: who pays a deductible if the grandparents' car is hit with the children aboard, whose policy is called first, and what everyone does if a grandparent's eyesight or confidence changes. Ten minutes at the kitchen table now saves a hard conversation later.

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